We all want and deserve respect. But whether we like it or not, it’s a fact of life that some people garner more respect than others. However, there are things you can do to earn more of the respect you deserve. Here are 18 daily habits of people who command respect everywhere they go.
Enforcing Personal Boundaries
When we fail to set or enforce boundaries, we implicitly signal to others that we can be taken advantage of without consequences. On the other hand, those who make sure to enforce their personal boundaries show that they respect themselves enough to honor their preferences, which automatically makes others more likely to do the same.
Balancing Confidence and Humility
As noted by Barking Up the Wrong Tree, while confidence is a key trait associated with being more respected, it’s also important to not come across as overconfident. Those who strike the perfect balance between confidence and humility have the best chances of being respected by others.
Valuing and Respecting Time
If you value and respect your own time and that of others, then the people around you are sure to respect you and your consideration of their needs. Ensure you’re consistently punctual and meet deadlines, and those around you will see you as a consistent, reliable, and respectable person.
Openness to New Ideas
People who are always open to new ideas, perspectives, and suggestions naturally exhibit a willingness to learn and grow, which many people find commendable and respectable. It also shows that you value the input of others, which is more likely to make them respect you.
Staying Calm Under Pressure
It’s not always easy to maintain your composure in challenging situations, but if you can do so to the best of your ability, you will be repaid with the respect and appreciation of those around you. This ability showcases your resilience, strength, and level-headedness.
Leading by Example
Some of the most famously respected people in history have been those who forge their own paths and set high standards for themselves to live by. If you can abide by your own values, it’s likely that others will respect you and want to follow in your footsteps.
Staying True to One’s Word
It’s easy to make promises, but staying true to your word is another matter. Those who can do so show others that they’re reliable, dependable, and trustworthy, which are all highly respected traits. On the other hand, according to MindTools, those who fail to keep their promises are more likely to lose respect from others.
Demonstrating Compassion
Some people wrongly see expressions of emotion as a sign of weakness. On the contrary, demonstrating compassion and emotional intelligence will garner a great deal of respect from those who matter. Show concern and empathy for people going through hard times, and you’re sure to earn their appreciation and respect.
Accountability in Actions
We all make mistakes sometimes, but the important thing is how you handle them. If you can hold yourself accountable for your mistakes and make active attempts to learn from them, people are sure to admire your honesty, integrity, and humility.
Upholding Consistency
Consistency takes many forms, whether it be through your words, actions, or values. When you can be consistent in these key aspects of your life, you show people that you’re a stable and trustworthy figure worthy of their respect.
Owning and Rectifying Mistakes
It’s okay to make mistakes or not live up to your expectations from time to time. If you can own up to and try your best to rectify these mistakes, this is a great opportunity to showcase your confidence and humility, garnering respect from others in the process.
Seeking and Giving Feedback
Everyone respects honesty. By providing constructive criticism when it’s asked for or necessary, you display your ability to be honest and your respect for them and their growth. Similarly, seeking feedback from others can earn you respect by signaling to others that you value their opinion and are willing to improve.
Willingness to Perform All Tasks
This is a great one to try out at your workplace. We all know what it’s like to struggle with a work task or learn something new. If you can step in to assist someone in this situation, you’re sure to garner their respect and appreciation. The act of going out of your way to help someone out demonstrates a proactive, team-first approach.
Anticipating and Meeting Needs
Have you ever had the experience of someone knowing what you need and taking steps to address that need without you even saying it? If so, you’ll know that this makes you feel valued and attended to, and it generates a great deal of respect for the person attending to your needs.
Exhibiting Empathy
Empathy may not be a trait you immediately think of when you think of someone who commands respect, but you’d be surprised at how effective it can be. When you show that you understand the feelings of others and are willing to support them in times of need, they’ll respect your attentiveness, care, and consideration.
Maintaining a Positive Attitude
Those who radiate a positive attitude, even in difficult situations, are commonly viewed as a source of inspiration, morale, and energy, especially in team environments. Be the shining light that guides others through dark times, and you’re sure to earn their respect.
Prioritizing Self-Awareness
Being cognizant of your personal strengths and weaknesses, as well as mindful of your effect on others, is sure to garner the respect of those around you. Self-awareness is a highly respected trait that allows you to constantly learn and improve.
Investing in Skill Development
Proactively seeking new ways to learn and develop your skill set enhances your capabilities and serves as a source of inspiration for others. It is also a trait that generates a significant amount of respect and admiration from those around you.
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