It’s a fact that some people are overly selfish, putting their own needs above those of everyone else. Someone recently asked, “What is a telltale sign that someone is a selfish person?” Below are the top 18 answers.
When they downplay your problems
It’s all about them; your struggles barely register. Imagine reaching out for support, only to have your problems belittled or dismissed. This isn’t just insensitivity; it’s a clear signal that in their world, only their issues matter.
They refuse to take responsibility for their actions
Ever met someone who’s never wrong? They weave a world where mistakes are always someone else’s fault, never theirs. Apologies are foreign to them, revealing a deep-seated selfishness that avoids accountability at all costs.
They don’t do their fair share of work
Complaining yet contributing nothing, some people expect the world to revolve around their needs. This behavior isn’t just laziness; it’s a sense of entitlement that burdens others with their responsibilities.
When conversations are one-sided
Ever felt like you’re just a sounding board? Conversations that never reciprocate signal you’re dealing with someone who’s only interested in themselves. It’s not just poor communication; it’s a refusal to acknowledge anyone else’s life or thoughts.
They are always the victim
In their narrative, they’re perpetually wronged, never wrong. This constant victimhood isn’t just exhausting; it’s a manipulation tactic to evade responsibility and garner unwarranted sympathy, ignoring the impact of their actions on others.
If they don’t return the shopping cart
Something as simple as returning a cart can speak volumes. Choosing not to shows a lack of consideration for others, a minor act of selfishness that hints at a larger pattern of behavior.
They are rude to others
How someone treats those they perceive as ‘below’ them reveals their true character. Rudeness to service staff isn’t just bad manners; it’s a blatant display of self-importance and entitlement.
If they listen to their phone loudly in public
Blaring videos in public spaces? It’s not just annoying; it’s an audacious declaration that their entertainment trumps communal peace. This thoughtlessness is a telltale sign of self-absorption.
when they take other people’s stuff
Taking what isn’t theirs, from lunches to personal items, isn’t just theft; it’s a profound disrespect for others’ belongings and a glaring example of putting their wants above all else.
They only message you when they need something
Those fair-weather friends who pop up only in need aren’t just inconvenient; they’re using your willingness to help for their gain, a selfish take on friendship that’s all take, no give.
If they act like their kids owe them
Viewing children as debtors for the life given to them skews the parent-child relationship into a transactional one. This isn’t parenting; it’s a self-centered expectation of gratitude for fulfilling basic responsibilities.
They change the subject (but don’t have ADHD etc.)
Shifting the conversation away from anything not about them? It’s not just disinterest in your life; it’s a self-centered need to always be the focal point, ignoring your desire to share and connect.
They are an obnoxious housemate
Dragging the party home without a thought for sleeping roommates isn’t just inconsiderate; it’s a blatant disregard for shared living norms, prioritizing their fun over everyone else’s comfort and needs.
If they never give compliments or praise
Withholding praise or dressing compliments as backhanded remarks isn’t just stinginess with kind words; it’s a reflection of a self-centered mindset that begrudges acknowledging others’ successes or efforts.
They choose their own convenience at the inconvenience of others
From double parking to loud phone calls, these choices aren’t just oversights; they’re deliberate decisions that put their convenience above communal respect, a hallmark of selfish behavior.
If they seek attention or sympathy for other people’s tragedies
Hijacking someone else’s tragedy for personal attention isn’t just tacky; it’s a narcissistic exploitation of others’ pain, turning someone else’s suffering into their spotlight.
They don’t refill the ice tray
Leaving the ice tray empty isn’t just forgetfulness; it’s a small, revealing act of neglect that shows a disregard for the next person’s needs, epitomizing a self-first attitude.
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